When I was very small, my teachers told me to let my parents sign their names on my homework so as to prove that they had assisted in doing my homework. Most schools have carried out this policy for a long time and now some people have doubted the necessity of parents' signature. They believed that it is both parents and teachers' duty to check children's homework, but the schools only leave this job to the parents. In my opinion, there is no need to sign the name, because there is no doubt that parents have the duty to help their children solve the problems, but some homework should be checked by teachers as they know how to better correct students' mistakes, then to better improve students' ability. So the best way to help students get improve lies in both parents and teachers' effort.
在我很小的时候,我的老师叫我让我的父母在我的作业上签名,以证明他们辅导过我做作业。大部分学校都执行这一政策很长时间,而如今有人质疑父母签名的必要性。他们认为父母和教师都有责任检查孩子的作业,但学校只把这份工作留给父母。在我看来,是没有必要签名的,毫无疑问,父母有义务帮助孩子解决问题,但有些作业应由老师检查,因为他们清楚如何更好地纠正学生的错误,之后才能更好地提高学生的能力。所以帮助学生最好的方式在于父母和老师的共同努力。
Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
In Chinese culture, it is every child's duty to return their parents as they grow up. The children know their duty and they work hard to give parents a better life. As a child, I was grateful to my parents as they gave me all their love, so I made up my mind that I must earn a lot of money and then I could pay back my parents' money. But as I grew up, I realized that money was not that only way I could return my parents. What's more, my parents don't care about my money, and they just want to spend more time with me. When I grow up, I will move out and probably live far away from them. At that time, if I come home often, they will be happy. I think every parent just want care from their children.
在中国文化中,小孩长大后回报父母是小孩的责任。孩子们也知道他们的职责,为了给父母更好的生活,他们努力工作。作为一个孩子,我很感激我的父母,因为他们给了我他们所有的爱,所以我下定决心,我一定要赚很多钱,然后可以偿还父母的钱。但是当我长大了,我意识到,钱并不是唯一可以回报父母的方式。而且,我的父母并不在意我的钱,他们只是想能够有更多的时间和我在一起。当我长大后,我可能会搬出去,住得很远。在那个时候,如果我经常回家,他们就会很高兴。我觉得每个父母都想从他们的孩子身上得到关心。
The stage of high school is so important for me that I focus a lot of energy on study. I am good at math and English while my weak subjects are biology and geography. In order to keep up with the top students, I study all the time. So my parents were so worried about me, they thought I was stressful. The more I studied, the heavier pressure I could feel. I talked to my close friends, then they asked me to hang out for fun with them for one day. We watched a movie and then went shopping happily, the most excited thing was to have buffet. We could eat what we wanted and then shared our secrets. The moment of forgetting annoyance made me felt so comfortable and easy. I need to find the balance of study and amusement.
高中阶段对我来说是非常重要的,我在学习上花了大量的精力。我很擅长数学和英语,而我薄弱的科目是生物和地理。为了跟上最优秀的学生,我一心扑在学习上,所以我的父母都很担心我,他们觉得我压力太大了。我学得越深,就越能感觉到压力。我和我亲密的朋友聊天,然后他们叫我和他们出去玩一天。我们看电影然后愉快地购物愉快,最兴奋的是自助餐,我们可以吃我们自己想吃的,我们还分享我们的秘密。忘记烦恼的时刻让我感到舒适和轻松,我需要找到学习和娱乐之间的平衡。
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